URGENT UPDATE: Thousands of fans gathered on Saturday, September 30, 2023, in San Francisco to pay tribute to Bobby Weir, the iconic Grateful Dead guitarist who passed away at the age of 78 on January 10, 2023, due to lung issues linked to cancer. The memorial event, known as “Homecoming,” drew attendees from across the country, all united in their love for Weir and the music he created.
Under a clear Bay Area sky, attendees clapped, played tambourines, and chanted lyrics from Grateful Dead songs. The atmosphere was filled with a palpable sense of community, as fans from all walks of life celebrated a musician who epitomized the spirit of connection through music. “It’s about love… You could see people from all walks of life – a cowboy, a hippy and whatever – all getting along,” said Eric Hoffner, 66, a long-time follower of the band since 1976. “It’s not the end of an era; it’s another step in the road.”
Weir, a founding member of the Grateful Dead, began his musical journey in 1965 in Palo Alto, California. The band cultivated the most dedicated fanbase in rock history, known as the Deadheads, through relentless touring and a commitment to dynamic setlists. Fans traveled from as far as Southern California and Eugene, Oregon to partake in the heartfelt memorial.
Magnolia Grieco, 37, drove over six hours from Santa Monica to honor Weir. “If this music has been a part of your life, I can’t imagine how you couldn’t be here,” said Grieco, whose family spans generations of Grateful Dead fans. “I mean Bob Weir united generations,” she added, showcasing her Grateful Dead lightning bolt tattoo.
Many attendees echoed her sentiments, emphasizing Weir’s enduring legacy of unity. “It was the music, the ethos of kindness,” said Greg Hanson of San Rafael, who offered roses in remembrance. “They gave their lives to making their fans’ lives better. This is a great way to send him off.”
The memorial featured a mix of live and virtual tributes. Notable figures including Nancy Pelosi, John Mayer, and Mickey Hart shared their reflections. Pelosi called Weir “a force of nature” and emphasized his significant impact on the Bay Area and beyond, stating, “The music will never stop, the love will not fade, and the light you brought into this world will continue to guide us.”
John Mayer, who performed with Weir as part of Dead & Company, fought back tears while describing Weir as an invaluable mentor. “Thank you maestro, you’ve changed my life and I will love you forever,” he said, highlighting the profound influence Weir had on his artistry and community.
Bandmate Mickey Hart recalled Weir’s vibrant spirit, noting, “He was singular… he was not a copy of anyone before.” Hart assured the crowd that Weir’s musical legacy would endure, reflecting on Weir’s vision for a community that transcends time.
In a touching conclusion, Weir’s family shared their thoughts on his multifaceted life as a father, musician, and activist. His eldest daughter, Monet Weir, underscored his belief in music’s power to foster human connection, urging attendees to keep listening to the music that unites us all. “Even when people disagree, they should try to work together to build a better humanity,” she said.
As the memorial wrapped up, the crowd joined together to sing “Ripple,” honoring Weir’s legacy. With bubbles rising and many wiping away tears, the lyrics resonated through the warm afternoon: “Would you hear my voice come through the music? Would you hold it near, as it were your own?”
This emotional gathering not only celebrated Bobby Weir’s life but also reaffirmed the profound impact of his music on generations, creating a lasting bond among fans and friends alike.
