UPDATE: In a compelling new column, Miss Manners offers urgent advice for those struggling with interruptions in meetings and managing unwanted gifts of alcohol. Just released, her insights address common workplace dilemmas that many face today.
DEAR READERS: After receiving feedback about interrupting colleagues during meetings, one reader seeks help to curb this habit. The challenge arises when coworkers monopolize discussions, veering off-topic. With meetings often rushed, valuable information can be lost if questions aren’t allowed.
Miss Manners suggests raising a hand to signal a desire to speak, a technique she acknowledges might feel “school-ish,” but effectively communicates the need for input without disrupting the flow. “Asking if there will be time for questions afterwards,” she adds, “can preempt long-winded dialogues.”
For those who find themselves overwhelmed by lengthy monologues, Miss Manners does not dismiss the idea of scheduling a follow-up meeting. While inconvenient, it may prove effective in ensuring all necessary topics are covered.
In a separate inquiry, another reader faces a unique predicament at their local pub. Despite consistently ordering nonalcoholic drinks, the kind bartender insists on offering free alcohol shots. To address this, Miss Manners recommends a straightforward approach: kindly request that the bartender refrains from serving alcohol, while expressing a willingness to enjoy alternative beverages together.
Miss Manners emphasizes the importance of clear communication in both scenarios to foster a respectful and productive environment. “It’s all about guiding conversations while respecting others,” she states.
For those navigating similar issues, Miss Manners’ advice serves as a timely reminder of the balance needed in social interactions, whether at work or leisure.
As these situations unfold, readers are encouraged to reflect on their communication styles and how they can positively impact their interactions with others. For more personalized guidance, Miss Manners invites questions through her official channels at www.missmanners.com or via email at [email protected].
Stay tuned for more updates and advice on navigating social challenges in professional and personal spaces.
